By Nell Lake
Over the years, I’ve watched my cousin Deborah Haber struggle with several chronic, painful medical conditions, including fibromyalgia and a rare incurable disorder called Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, a connective tissue disease that causes profuse sweating, a high heart rate and insomnia, among its many symptoms.
Largely housebound, and managing the life of her 11-year-old daughter, Deborah faces social isolation and persistent pain.
But along the way, my cousin has discovered a lifeline that’s lifted her outlook and improved her health. It combines the best qualities of a mother, best friend, therapist and trusted doctor to help her cope: it’s social media.
Deborah, 39, used to lie awake at night with “agonizing, shooting nerve pain,” feeling helpless and alone. She began going online, where she found others who were also awake and in pain; they became her midnight friends. “When you cannot sleep,” she says, “and you know your kid’s going to be up in a couple of hours, and you’re going to have to get her to school on time,” even if you’re exhausted — “knowing that you are not alone is a life-saver.”
With a rare and painful chronic condition, Deborah Haber found a lifeline: social media (Courtesy)
Early on in her social media journey, Deborah mostly used Twitter. It was through people she met there that she learned about Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. She talked with her doctor, who did her own research and sent Haber to a specialist, who diagnosed the rare congenital disease. Deborah’s online activity, then, led directly to the diagnosis, which led to “far better care.”
Clearly, Deborah’s not alone: she’s part of a large and growing group of people with chronic illness in the U.S. who are using the Internet and other online technology to take charge of and improve their own health. This goes far beyond Googling your child’s weird rash: these millions of “empowered patients” are joining social-media communities, consulting online health databases, learning and sharing knowledge about drug side effects, crowdsourcing research studies, electronically monitoring their health and becoming health care activists who share what they’ve learned with their doctors.
Online patients with chronic illness use social media to improve both mental and physical health and to better connect with an understanding community, says Jennifer Covich Bordenick, chief executive officer of eHealth Initiative, which published a study earlier this year on patients’ social media patterns.
“It’s really incredible, if you look at what social media is allowing patients…to do right now,” she says. “It’s providing tremendous access to support, information, and it’s connecting people in a way that they haven’t been able to do before. … People with chronic illness are more motivated. … There’s an urgency there.” Continue reading