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Tip-Toeing Toward Conversations About Death

Having a conversation about the way you want to die can be uncomfortable. But that means many of us aren’t ready when our parents, spouse or children face a startling diagnosis or have a tragic accident. And how about for yourself? Do you have a health proxy, someone who knows what to tell doctors if you are unconscious?

deathA state law passed earlier this year urges more of us to make preparations for these wrenching experiences by requiring that doctors offer information on end-of-life care to “appropriate” patients. The new law does not require counseling or signatures on forms, but the hope is that when a doctor hands a patient a pamphlet, it may start a conversation.

“Sixty-seven percent of people want to die at home and only 24 percent did,” said Public Health Commissioner Cheryl Bartlett, citing a survey of Massachusetts residents. “If we have these conversations more, people will be more comfortable helping to make these choices come true.”

The Department of Public Health has just released draft rules for the law. It defines an “appropriate” patient as someone who has a terminal illness that is expected to cause death within six months and who would benefit from hospice and palliative care. But some doctors are already taking a much broader view.

“Our goal is that all patients have the opportunity to at least designate a surrogate,” said Eliza Shulman, chief of palliative care at Harvard Vanguard Medical Associates. “And that all of our most vulnerable patients have their wishes very clearly documented so that they are able to get care that’s aligned with their goals and practices.”

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